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What Are You Procrastinating?

inner pig dog

My dear Global Yoga Community,

Lately I have found myself in the wave of emotions that come up when I keep on procrastinating tasks. I started to change my language from have to and need to into choose to. But this alone is not enough. Maybe you remember me talking about that 50% of the yoga practice is already done when you are on your mat?! 🙂

It is incredible how much resistance can come up or how many other to does come to mind to avoid what we have been procrastinating. And that even knowing how much better we feel afterwards or already while doing it! Is it really about overcoming our “inner pig dog” or is there more behind it?

I came across this great article you might enjoy as much as I did. (New York Times 2019)

If you are not up for reading the whole article here are a few of the interesting studies:
Etymologically, “procrastination” is derived from the Latin verb procrastinare â€” to put off until tomorrow. But it’s more than just voluntarily delaying. Procrastination is also derived from the ancient Greek word akrasia — doing something against our better judgment.

“Procrastination is an emotion regulation problem, not a time management problem”
Procrastination isn’t a unique character flaw or a mysterious curse on your ability to manage time, but a way of coping with challenging emotions and negative moods induced by certain tasks — boredom, anxiety, insecurity, frustration, resentment, self-doubt and beyond.

“We really weren’t designed to think ahead into the further future because we needed to focus on providing for ourselves in the here and now,”
Procrastination is a perfect example of present bias, our hard-wired tendency to prioritize short-term needs ahead of long-term ones.
Dr. Hershfield’s research has shown that, on a neural level, we perceive our “future selves” more like strangers than as parts of ourselves. When we procrastinate, parts of our brains actually think that the tasks we’re putting off — and the accompanying negative feelings that await us on the other side — are somebody else’s problem.

To make things worse, we’re even less able to make thoughtful, future-oriented decisions in the midst of stress. When faced with a task that makes us feel anxious or insecure, the amygdala — the “threat detector” part of the brain — perceives that task as a genuine threat, in this case to our self-esteem or well-being. Even if we intellectually recognize that putting off the task will create more stress for ourselves in the future, our brains are still wired to be more concerned with removing the threat in the present. Researchers call this “amygdala hijack.”

“Our brains are always looking for relative rewards. If we have a habit loop around procrastination but we haven’t found a better reward, our brain is just going to keep doing it over and over until we give it something better to do”
We must realize that, at its core, procrastination is about emotions, not productivity. The solution doesn’t involve downloading a time management app or learning new strategies for self-control. It has to do with managing our emotions in a new way.

To rewire any habit, we have to give our brains the “Bigger Better Offer” or “B.B.O.”
In the case of procrastination, we have to find a better reward than avoidance — one that can relieve our challenging feelings in the present moment without causing harm to our future selves. The difficulty with breaking the addiction to procrastination in particular is that there is an infinite number of potential substitute actions that would still be forms of procrastination, Dr. Brewer said. That’s why the solution must therefore be internal, and not dependent on anything but ourselves.

One option is to forgive yourself in the moments you procrastinate.
Another tactic is the related practice of self-compassion, which is treating ourselves with kindness and understanding in the face of our mistakes and failures. 


Healthier ways to manage the feelings that typically trigger procrastination

Cultivate curiosity
If you’re feeling tempted to procrastinate, bring your attention to the sensations arising in your mind and body. What feelings are eliciting your temptation? Where do you feel them in your body? What do they remind you of? What happens to the thought of procrastinating as you observe it? Does it intensify? Dissipate? Cause other emotions to arise? How are the sensations in your body shifting as you continue to rest your awareness on them?

Consider the next action
This is different than the age-old advice to break up a task you’re tempted to avoid into bite-sized chunks. According to Dr. Pychyl, focusing only on the “next action” helps calm our nerves, and it allows for what Dr. Pychyl called “a layer of self-deception.” At the start of a given task, you can consider the next action as a mere possibility, as if you were method acting: “What’s the next action I’d take on this if I were going to do it, even though I’m not?” Maybe you would open your email. Or perhaps you would put the date at the top of your document. Don’t wait to be in the mood to do a certain task. “Motivation follows action. Get started, and you’ll find your motivation follows,” Dr. Pychyl said.

Make your temptations more inconvenient
It’s still easier to change our circumstances than ourselves, said Gretchen Rubin, author of “Better Than Before: What I Learned About Making and Breaking Habits.” According to Ms. Rubin, we can take what we know about procrastination and “use it to our advantage” by placing obstacles between ourselves and our temptations to induce a certain degree of frustration or anxiety. If you compulsively check social media, delete those apps from your phone or “give yourself a really complicated password with not just five digits, but 12,” Ms. Rubin said. By doing this, you’re adding friction to the procrastination cycle and making the reward value of your temptation less immediate.

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Thank you for being so committed to your yoga practice and this global community đź’ž

Love,

Nicole

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Forgiveness, Impermanence & Fast-Paced Life

My dear Global Yoga Community,

Being confronted with the impermanence of life as well as with the need to forgive myself, I decided to write about it. I have being listening and following an intuitive trauma coach for a while and it really resonated with me what he had to say about ‘Forgiveness’.
(Arian Samouie)

The concept of impermanence in general and the fast-paced nature of modern life has been a challenge for me on and off in the last years.

Impermanence, the understanding that all things are temporary and constantly changing, has profound implications for how we perceive life and navigate its challenges. Here are some pros and cons of embracing impermanence:

Pros of Impermanence

Recognizing that experiences are fleeting can enhance our appreciation for the present moment. This mindfulness can lead to greater enjoyment and fulfillment in everyday activities.

Embracing impermanence can foster resilience. When we accept that change is inevitable, we become better equipped to adapt to new circumstances and recover from setbacks.

Understanding that everything is temporary can help reduce unhealthy attachments to people, possessions, and situations. This can lead to a more peaceful and balanced state of mind.

Knowing that things are not static encourages personal growth and innovation. It motivates us to learn, evolve, and improve, as we understand that stagnation is not an option.

Impermanence can heighten our sense of gratitude. Realizing that nothing lasts forever makes us more grateful for what we have while we have it.

Cons of Impermanence

The transient nature of life can lead to feelings of uncertainty and anxiety. Knowing that stability is temporary can be unsettling and stressful for many people.

Impermanence means that we will inevitably face loss, whether it’s the end of relationships, the death of loved ones, or the decline of personal health. Coping with these losses can be profoundly challenging.

The unpredictable nature of life can complicate long-term planning. It can be hard to set and pursue goals when future circumstances are uncertain.

For some, the knowledge that everything is temporary can lead to a sense of futility, undermining motivation and the pursuit of meaning and purpose.

Emphasizing impermanence might lead some people to become emotionally detached as a defense mechanism, potentially resulting in less fulfilling relationships and a diminished capacity for empathy.

Impermanence is a double-edged sword. On one hand, it encourages us to live more fully in the present, to remain adaptable, and to appreciate what we have while it lasts. On the other hand, it can induce anxiety, complicate planning, and challenge our ability to cope with loss. Balancing these pros and cons involves cultivating a mindset that acknowledges the transient nature of life while still finding meaning and stability within it. Embracing impermanence mindfully can lead to a richer, more resilient, and more grateful existence.

Fast-Paced Life & Impermanence

The interconnection of the fast-paced nature of modern life and the concept of impermanence invites a reflection on how we navigate our daily existence. By recognizing the transient nature of life, we can cultivate a mindful approach, balancing the demands of a hurried world with a deeper appreciation for the present moment. This balance can lead to a more harmonious and meaningful life, where the inevitability of change is not a source of anxiety but a foundation for growth and resilience.

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I am celebrating all of you showing up for yourself in this beautiful community 🙂
Being mindful and gratefully embracing the present moment leads us to overcome our challenges to enhance our well-being❣️

Love,

Nicole



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